但，如果他们的爱变成了伤害，防止了你应有的成长呢？
突然有感想因为现在的孩子真的太软弱了。
现在流行爱的教育，但是可能我们误解了它的定义。偶尔让孩子跌倒也是爱，这样他们才有机会学习爬起来。拚了命的过分保护，对孩子好吗？ 有一天，父母也会老，会没力，到时候被保护惯了的孩子，突然没有了依靠，怎么办呢？
孩子还小， 说什么不会撒谎，于是孩子投诉的话，就每天找学校麻烦，对谁有好处？ 现在的孩子很厉害的，知道怎么manipulate 大人。 可是当局者迷，旁观者清。
什么都顺着孩子走，有一天你顺不了了呢？ 孩子跟你翻脸的时候呢？
所谓，love is blind 不止可以用在情侣上，也可以用在父母上。
适当的爱和关心当然对孩子是好的，
可是如果腻爱的话， 对孩子当然是一种伤害，也是对社会的一种负担。因为他们会变成有手脚但是没办法自立的人。就变成了寄生虫的意思吧。。
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It's a vicious cycle. Parents nowadays spent lesser time with their kids. So they compensate by 'helping kids' to solve whatever the kids can't. And it hink also not say parents like to 'disturb school', but they shallowly think their actions will 'help their kid' like as if saying "kid, look, papa mama got do job as parents hor." HAHA! Abit warped but that is wat i think ba...
Well, who say kids are lydat. Erhem, my MIL also very overly-protective of their married sons and this may likely carry on until perhaps... MIL is no longer around.
haha, I think so too. buay tahan...
well.. I know parents will always treat their kids like babies, maybe it will be better when you have ur own hse..
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